I've been doing some research lately on the way some people are treated, you know, the ones with a different sexual orientation than heterosexuality. I've been focusing most of my energy on bisexuality. My brief description of bisexuality is that it's a person, of either gender, that has a certain attraction to both genders, man and woman. Bisexuality is different then pansexuality. Pansexuals have a certain attraction to all genders, even if the other person does not neccessarily have a specific gender.
In my opinion, bisexuals deal with alot of insults and descrimination, as well as pansexuals, because people call bisexuals greedy, sluts, a gay/lesbian waiting to happen, confused and things far beyond just this. I think it's pathetic that society cannot accept this, that society dissagrees with the way people are born. I'm also against the fact that religion does not want to face people that have a different sexual orientation.
Through this research, I have also learned and noticed that it is near impossible to be 100% heterosexual. Everyone, at leats once, finds something attractive about the same gender in their life. It doesn't mean just because you think someone is pretty, you are automatically a bisexual, it's the fact that we will all find someone from the same gender attractive. We all falll along a spectrum and it's hard to know where we stand, as far as sexual orientation, but it naturally comes.The sad thing is, i believe that a lot of people fall in the tracks of mainstream bullshit, even the mainstream fairytales. All the fairytales I have read or people have read to me always involved on a boy/girl relationship. It was always heterosexual. It is like people are teaching children they are only alowed to be one thing and feel one thing: heterosexuality. I, for one, will not stand for it.
Mainstream music nowadays is mostly about a man wanting to have sex with a hot woman that has big breasts and a huge vagina. They talk about being horny and seeing that hot chick pump her butt out on the dance floor. They talk about how women are nothing but sex toys, the ones with sexy bikini bodies and those tanned legs, shaved as well as sun kissed. Where did all the meaningful music go, you know, the ones that talk about stuff like being lost as a person, being raped as well as scared, the people that need food to survive, where did that good music go? What did this world come to? LMFAO sings and talks about the dumbest things; getting drunk and then a girl stripping because he poured her a drink. I'm sorry, but LMFAO, do you think that's reality, that a girl will do that because you poured her a drink? It's nonsense, unless she is really drunk... Life is not revolved around heterosexual sex, life isn't even revolved around sex.
Reality TV shows don't help the human mind either because they teach us the gay stereotypes that are so pathetic. Not every homosexual man has a lisp, it's not all the homosexuals that hit on all of the same gender and it's not true that a homosexual cannot be happy. They are the sources and the core to why society treats homosexals and all the other sexualities other than heterosexuality like this. I blame media and the fact that our parents, our religion and our surroundings want to keep us away from the things that exist. We should not be afraid to face things that are reality.
I wish people would stop looking at the little things about us and concentrate on the fact that everyone is a good person, no matter what we like. Don't be afraid of homosexuals, bisexuals, pansexuals, transgenders, trenssexuals and everything beyond, they will not hurt you or bite you.
And, for all that are afraid to admit their true sexuality instead of the sexuality that has been laid on us, confy to the ones you are closest to, be ttrue to yourself and say it to one person at a time. Don't be afraid to fully be yourself, to fully trust people and to fully live your life. Live with no regrets and remember:
